Thoughts at 2am

 

fullsizeoutput_fecThe new year clean slate feeling came and went. Along with the excitement over things to come and reflecting on shared growth and memories. I was really looking forward to writing a beautiful post on new ideas and plans for 2017.

Then reality set in about our broken world and it felt selfish to talk about happiness and joy, when so many are feeling anything but.  Honestly, in the end, I am not feeling those things either. I look at my sweet son, Henry, and I feel like the world is failing his generation. I want more beauty and truth for him than I have known. I want him to live in a better world than I grew up in. I think that is what we all want for our kids. Am I making that happen? If not, how do I?

So many beautiful people have spoken into my heart these last two months and I am still processing it all. I am inspired. I am listening. I am praying. Sometimes I am yelling at God at 2am. Sometimes I am laughing. What I do know is that one voice above all others repeats a call each morning.  Love others. Love others. Love others. LOVE. OTHERS.

 

Seven Wonders Video

So my sweet husband put together this video of our trip. It includes some shots from other visits to the Seven Wonders of Oregon as well.  I would highly recommend this fun trip to anyone. Or even just hit up a few at a time.

https://vimeo.com/197438907

Seven Wonders – Part Three

So. Morning came on day seven.  I wanted to bottle the air. The mountain, hickory smoke, and lake smell was heaven.  We walked down to the Wallowa Lake Lodge and had breakfast. We were there on opening morning for the season. The tourists would not arrive for another month so really it was perfect. Not many of the places open on the lake, but also we were alone. We had the German pancake with the Marion berry syrup. I would gladly drive the five hours to this lake tonight just to have this pancake in the morning. Yeah, it was that good.  The view of the lake from the dining room at the lodge was peaceful and even Henry was quiet and reverent (of course the coloring book helped).

We set off exploring after breakfast. We did a fun hike along Hurricane Creek. Henry threw loads of rocks in the water. B and I relaxed and listened to the rushing water. We headed into Joseph after for some lunch.  We stopped by the Jennings Hotel.  B and I supported the Kickstarter for this wonderful renovation some months back. Greg, the owner, is still fixing the place up room by room. It is coming along so beautifully and B and I cannot wait to schedule our next getaway there. Consider scheduling a nice getaway here in the off season and really sink into the beauty of the Northeast Oregon.  B and I fell in love with this town and the Wallowa Mountains and have been daydreaming of moving there ever since. It is one of the few places I have found in my travels that already feels like home the minute you show up. Somehow it remembers me.

Leaving Joseph the next morning on day eight was hard. I was not ready to go and I was also ready to be home after such a hurried pace.  We had another long day of driving ahead.  The drive through the Columbia Gorge(#6 on the list) was refreshing. The landscape changes so much from east to west.  I kept thinking of this quote as we drove along the river for two hundred miles or more.

“Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it. The river was cut by the world’s great flood and runs over rocks from the basement of time. On some of the rocks are timeless raindrops. Under the rocks are the words, and some of the words are theirs.
I am haunted by waters.”
Norman Maclean, A River Runs Through It and Other Stories

After reading up on and visiting so many historical sites in Oregon. I was struck by the rich history here. The beautiful history of the native peoples are the harmony in the way they lived with this wild land.  The history of settlers, desperate and persevering in the journey west. Would I have been strong enough?

We arrived early evening at Memaloose State Park. Set up camp and had a nice dinner by the river. It was too hot for a fire, but once the sun went down the breeze and the view was worth it. That night we all slept like the dead and awoke to the blazing sun on day nine.

After a quick breakfast, we headed to Rowena Crest. May is when all the wildflowers are in bloom so I wanted to get this hike in now and early before the day really heated up. Turns out we were too late for the heat. By about fifteen minutes in we were already sweating and wondering if we should turn back. The view at the edge paid off though and I am glad we pushed through. We had planned on doing another hike, but instead headed for the air conditioned Columbia Gorge Interpretive Center. Henry and I spotted a big bull snake on our way in and the center lady came out to move it out to the grass(not without Henry getting to touch it first though).  At the end of the day we headed into Hood River to cool off and have dinner at one of the restaurants near the water.

Day ten started early. We headed up toward Mt Hood(#7 on the list).  Lots of slow driving in order to really enjoy the view.  We made our way around the mountain and stopped at Trillium Lake. It was a clear day so the Hood was really showing off.  There was a guy with this amazing lens taking shots and video of Hood. He let us take some looks and even let us use the lens for a few close up shots of the mountain. Henry of course threw more rocks in the water and talked to the ducks. We made the rest of the drive home in quiet. Henry fell asleep and B and I were lost in thought. This trip was such a beautiful experience and the perfect way to celebrate forty years of living.

Seven Wonders – Part Two

Okay. Day four! We headed Northeast toward Smith Rock State Park(#3 on the list).  What a beautiful spot. We had already visited this spot a few times as a family, so we gave ourselves a rest with trying to do any big hikes. It also felt like the surface of the sun that day. We opted for a short hike and then headed into town for a burger and shake!  We love Jody’s Drive In. Nothing like a cold malt after a hot hike.  Oh and you cannot miss stopping at the Alpaca Ranch.  We called it good for day four and headed to the KOA cabin.  Our cabin backed right up to a horse ranch and the horses were grazing the fence right by us. Henry nearly lost his mind with excitement. I may have been a little excited as well. They were so beautiful to watch as the sun started to go down.

Day five was all about the Fossils Beds National Monument. We stopped first at the Painted Hills(#4 on the list). The colors are amazing in person and really hard to capture properly. Just go there. But while you are there do not miss out on the Sheep Rock Unit. Go there and take the easy Islands of Time Hike(kid friendly).  It was other worldly. The celadonite mountains tower over you and I have never seen anything like it. They had wonderful little stops for Henry with fossils still buried in the rock. It was another hot day and we were definitely ready for a break from the heat. We headed down the highway to our stop for the night. We reserved a teepee at Clyde Holiday State Recreation Site.  The teepees are right next to the river.  It was wonderful and very peaceful(once the cows went home for the night).  We had a nice campfire and s’mores.

Day six was a long drive day. We had to make it all the way to Joseph and the Wallowa Mts(#5 on the list). We did take some much needed stops for getting our legs moving. We stopped for lunch and education at the Oregon Trail Interpretive Center just outside Baker City.  It has the most breathtaking view of the whole area. Fun for Henry to see all the history and fun for me since I did not grow up in Oregon. We learned more than I thought we would.  That night we rolled through Joseph and stayed at a little cabin near the south end of Wallowa Lake. It feels like a little village in the alps.  Snow capped mountains and cabins. The smell of wood burning in the all the fireplaces. The night fog rolled in around the tall firs. Magic.  Part Three posted tomorrow.

Seven Wonders Of Oregon – Part One

My first post of the year! This will be the first of a three parter. My favorite memory from 2016 was our Oregon road trip. I talked about planning it in an earlier post. The thought was to do something really great and memorable for B and I since we turned 40! So we took up Travel Oregon’s list of the Seven Wonders of Oregon and planned a 10 day road trip.Here is part one:

First day of any trip is always equal parts stress and joy. I am the packer/organizer so the whole morning before we leave(lets be real the whole week before) is my mind going over lists and double checking EVERYTHING while simultaneously barking orders at the boys. Every trip I think I will do all this the night before so I can be a peaceful, happy person in the morning. NEVER HAPPENS.  Needless to say we all made it in the car along with most of what we needed(something always gets left).

This trip called for easy places to stay. We were making stops at around 20 locations in Oregon and covering around 1200 miles in just ten days. So we chose to stay at places where shelter and bathrooms were provided. The first day we drove to the coast stopping in Corvallis for a food and coffee break.  One of the moms I first met when we started going to Door of Hope owns a wonderful shop in this wonderful little town. They are their own roasters and the coffee was perfect.  Anytime you are nearby check them out at Tried and True.

After we made it to the Oregon coast(#1 on the seven wonders) we stopped at the aquarium at Newport. This is a must see if you have a sea loving child like Henry.  He spent the whole time running from tank to tank and yelling “oh my word, look at this”. That night we stayed at one of the cabins at the Waldport KOA. They have a great little path that leads down to a beach on the Alsea Bay with a view of the historic bridge.

Next morning we packed and headed south with our first stop at Cape Perpetua. This spot has loads of trails and includes the highest point on the Oregon coast.  Henry loves the tide pools and watching the waves hit the massive rocks at the churns and spouting horn.  We earned ourselves a nice hearty lunch before making our way back inland towards Diamond Lake.

On the drive to Diamond Lake there make sure you stop at Toketee Falls. It is all downhill on the way to the falls so save some energy for the way back up. The falls are gorgeous  and carve out a massive wall of basalt. I could have spent more time here were we not on a schedule.  We ended day two at Diamond Lake Resort, a cute resort with loads of lodging options right on the lake. They have a restaurant where you can eat all your meals and boats to rent if you like to fish or just want to cruise about. Our main reason for staying here this time was it’s proximity to Crater Lake(#2 on the Seven Wonders).  Crater Lake National Park has limited access in the winter time and no lodging until summer season so we were glad to find this wonderful place.

Day three started with a hearty breakfast and loads of sunshine on the drive up to Crater Lake.  I was so excited to take Henry here as it is my favorite place I have visited so far.  There is something so magical about it and seeing it covered with snow was an added bonus.  After layering up, we headed for the rim. The view was amazing and did not disappoint. We had a nice family snowball fight and I built Henry a BB8 snowman.

Little fact about me, I love talking to strangers at places like this and hearing their stories. This day was no different and of course I befriended the cute old man in Wrangler jeans named Joe. He took a couple of shots for us so we did not have rely on the selfie stick(no jokes-it is the only way I make it in any of the pics with my family). He has been passionate about photography since he was a teenager and it was fun to hear his stories.

After a bit, we headed in to the Lodge building and got some hot cocoa.  We all watched a film about Crater Lake and how it formed out of a volcano. Of course this was Henry’s favorite part. Once we arrived back at Diamond Lake we had a nice rest on the shore and enjoyed a sunset together while eating some dinner. Three days in and seven to go. Part Two will be posted tomorrow.

Ending the year.

2016. What a year. I am reminded over and over this year of the movie Parenthood. The grandmother in the movie,who everyone thinks is a little silly but who is really brilliant, tells a story about riding a roller coaster when she is younger and all the different ways it makes you feel in one ride. Then she says some people prefer the merry go round. Her grandson(Steve Martin’s character) does not get her until later when he is at a school play for his kids and the whole thing spirals into chaos. It hits him and he gets her life analogy. I just love this so much. But man this has been a bumpy year on the roller coaster.

One of my favorite memories of this year was spending the day at Enchanted Forest with my friend and our boys.  We rode the log roller coaster and it was one of the most hilarious moments I have had in a long time. I am pretty sure I was covered in water , crying and laughing at the same time. That moment kinda sums up this year. I’ve allowed in more fear and worry than I care to admit(not without reasons). I really want to end this year in quiet so I am going to rest from media for the next two days

I will start posting on January 1st and chronicle some of the best days of the year past, the ones that made my soul leap. Then I will dust myself off and get to the hard work of loving others and trusting God. I have some pretty great plans for 2017 and I cannot wait to share them. screen-shot-2016-12-29-at-6-57-28-pm

Mapping It Out

My lovely B turned forty in October and I am twenty one days away from entering my fourth decade. It feels unreal. I was JUST twenty, working at Cafe Eccell and going to Texas A&M. Turning forty calls for a trip. Being married to a musician means we are not exactly flush with cash, so family road trip it is.  

We are heading out on the 29th for ten days of exploring Oregon. Travel Oregon put together a fun list called the Seven Wonders of Oregon.  We are hitting up all seven in one trip.  Follow along here for more details and stories and of course loads of pictures.

Here is the itinerary(so far):

Day 1 – Portland to Coast(Newport to Waldport)

Stops: Corvallis, Aquarium, Seal Rock

Day 2 – Coast(Waldport to Reedsport) to Diamond Lake

Stops: Cape Perpetua, Florence, Toketee Falls

Day 3 – Crater Lake

Day 4- Diamond Lake to Redmond

Stops: Smith Rock, Cove/Palisades

Day 5- Redmond to John Day

Stops: Painted Hills, John Day Fossil Beds

Day 6- John Day to Joseph

Stops:Sumpter, Oregon Trail Interpretive Center

Day 7- Wallowas, Wallowa Lake

Day 8- Joseph to the Gorge

Stops: Pendleton

Day 9-Gorge: Rowena Crest, Memaloose

Day 10-Gorge to Mt Hood to Portland

Stops: Cloud Cap, Trillium Lake

The Seven Wonders are in greenSo, stay tuned as I will be sharing more about the process of prepping a family for road tripping. Screen Shot 2016-04-14 at 4.51.11 PM

March forth.

March was a month for big steps forward and a few back.  B released his solo album – Let a Thousand Flowers Bloom. I met some pretty lofty work goals.  We picked out a kindergarten for Henry. B had two album release shows. We battled sickness, time changes, and more than a few family meltdowns.  In the end, we are better for it all(maybe not the sickness) and the spring planning and cleaning got an early start.

Please take a listen to the album and share with all your people. Click the title above and get a free download on Noisetrade.

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